Well it's been a little bit since I've written in here, because well things all around us seemed to have been going somewhat OK. Well it was truthfully the calm before the storm. My DSS's "monster" has informed us that they are changing his school at the end of the month. They have found a place, and therefore, she believes that it is her God given right to do whatever the hell she thinks she can. Well in reality sunshine, there are rules that need to be followed. Even though, she isn't one to follow the rules (never has, and never will, as long as the bullshit legal system that we have in place finally makes these women accountable for their actions), we will be going through the proper channels in which to make those rules enforced.
My DSS is almost 10 years old, but is the size of a 6 year old. He is very small for his age, and we are waiting on tests (that SHE should have done almost 3 years ago, but never did) to find out the actual reasoning for his small stature. He has gone to his current school, going onto his sixth year. He has gone there from day one. Has his friends that watch out for him, and the teachers and everyone in the school knows who he is, and what an amazing kid that he is. The teachers and students keep an extra eye on him, just to make sure that he isn't getting picked on, or that anyone is "messing" with him.
He is an extremely sensetive kid, and his feelings get hurt very easily. He told us today, in tears that he doesn't want to switch schools, and that he doesn't want to leave all of his friends and teachers, and because he is already started school, he thinks that it's stupid to change schools. We asked him if he knew why he was changing schools, and his answer was, well my "monster" doesn't have a car, and my step dad refuses to drive me to school cause it's out of his way on his way to work. I'm sorry, but that's just not good enough. You make things work. In her affidavit from almost 2 years ago now, she states that she doesn't have a car, BUT that she has an amazing family that makes sure that DSS gets to school and to all the things that he needs to do. So where is this "amazing family" that you speak of? Oh, that's right, they are sick and tired of your bullshit just like the rest of us. And the other excuse.... Well "monster" has a new baby now, so therefore she doesn't have the time or energy to take me to school so I will have to change schools.
Someone tell me where the logic and the sense comes into this? The term "in the best interest of the child" is the new cliche, it's like "don't wear white after labour day".... This term gets thrown around, and in reality, it isn't the best interest of the child, it's in the best interest of the legal system to not want to "rock the boat" with the fem-nazi groups out there that paint these fathers in the worst way.
Sorry just had to get this out, and it's so extremely upsetting that these women (who in my opinion don't even deserve to have that title) can do whatever the hell that they want, and nothing will ever change. Well we won't take it lying down, nor roll over and say, OK, this is what you want to do, well I guess I should just let you do it.
Thanks for listening.....
Much love,
TRAO
